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 There are really two very different (and important) aspects to the
"conversations with women" topic:
1. The HOW.
2. The WHAT.
THE HOW
Most guys want to know "what to talk about" with women.
It only makes sense that you should talk about things that women are interested
in... right?
Well... partially.
It is actually FAR MORE IMPORTANT to talk about whatever topic you're talking
about in the RIGHT WAY.
In other words, if you don't understand HOW to carry on a conversation that
creates ATTRACTION, then it really won't matter WHAT you talk about... because
the woman you're talking to won't FEEL anything towards you.
The HOW of conversation includes (but is not limited to):
-Your body language
-Eye contact
-The Cocky & Funny style of communicating
-Flirting
-Sending mixed messages
-Directing the conversation
-Dealing with common questions and topics
...and many other things.
My point is that if you're running into a lot of "uncomfortable silences",
nervousness, and other usual challenges, then you probably need to get the HOW
handled before the WHAT.
THE WHAT
With that said, there are several topics that are GREAT to discuss with women.
But instead of just giving them to you, I want you to do yourself a favor and
THINK for a minute.
What topics do women PAY to hear about?
Hint: Cosmo magazine, romance novels, soap operas, nighttime dramas, the fashion
channel... etc. If you think about it, the answer to this question is rather
obvious.
For whatever reason, WOMEN tend to LOVE:
-Drama
-Conflict
-Romance
-Famous people and their lives
So... it's really quite easy to enjoy a conversation with a woman about these
topics.
Here are a few ideas:
1. Play amateur psychologist to the stars.
Talk about how someone famous is doing something really stupid, then
psycho-analyze them.
For instance... right now, Michael Jackson is something like two hundred million
dollars in debt. Even though he makes about twenty million dollars a year, he
somehow manages to blow it all and then some. He has spent an unimaginable
amount of time and money on plastic surgery and skin bleaching... and he
reportedly just spent around seven hundred grand digitally darkening his skin
tone in a recent video.
This situation is all kinds of BEGGING to be picked apart with a fine-toothed
critical mind.
It's also PREGNANT with humor opportunities.
2. Find an interesting-looking group of people and guess what's going on.
Look around you, and find a couple sitting at a table that looks like they're on
their first date.
Then start making fun of how the guy is acting, how he's dressed, his posture,
or whatever. Talk about how the woman is thinking that he's a dork and how he's
not getting any, no matter how many compliments he gives her.
Analyzing what's going on with a close group of others is big fun, and women
love it.
3. Make fun of someone famous.
Talk about how a super model is too skinny, or how Ozzy has killed all his brain
cells and what a shame it is that he's on TV broadcasting it to millions of
viewers. Make fun of Mariah Carey for gaining weight, being put in the loony
bin, and putting out a sucky movie.
All you have to do is read a few gossip magazines to get all kinds of great
stuff to make fun of. It's fun, it's funny, and it's a great way to talk like
you're all that.
4. Talk about other people's love lives.
Talk about the problems that others are going through when it comes to love and
romance, then volunteer completely ridiculous theories about what's going on.
Mention a friend you had who broke up with his girlfriend because she gained
weight, then after you've told the story, make up a random theory about how
women who gain weight are actually lesbians.
But make sure it's funny, whatever you invent.
...I think you can "feel me".
The point here is that women are NATURALLY fascinated and drawn to certain
topics... so USE THEM. The REAL benefit of talking to women about topics that
really interest them is that you can USE ALL THE OTHER IDEAS THAT YOU'RE
LEARNING while you're talking!
You can AMPLIFY THE ATTRACTION as the conversation goes on... as long as you
know what else to do as you talk.
Oh, by the way... Topics to avoid:
Rape, kidnapping, stalking, death, chess, computers, comic
books, Star Wars, monster trucks, and NSYNC. NEVER talk about topics that might
really freak a woman out, or topics that make you look like the biggest loser
alive in the beginning. You'll create BAD VIBES that will make any attraction
that you've created INSTANTLY disappear. Others to really avoid include talking
negatively about yourself, talking about how desperate you are or how long it's
been since you've been on a date, asking if she likes you or if you're her
"type"... and any other WUSS-BAG topic that makes you look insecure and needy.
Remember,
the key to success with women is creating a powerful emotional
ATTRACTION between you and her. If you don't know how to do this, then NOTHING
you do is going to help you very much. If you DO know how and why women feel
ATTRACTION for men, then almost ANYTHING you do or talk about can amplify it.
And if you'd like to get the basics of how ATTRACTION works, plus a good set of
tools to use for meeting and dating women, then go download my eBook "Double
Your Dating". You can download it
here
and be reading it in just a few minutes from right now. [This book and the three bonuses that come with it are the FOUNDATION for
success with women. Everything you read in these articles will make more sense
once you have read the book]
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